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I’m with Michelle and Miel, about the orgasms thing. There were many times when I would have sex with my ex and I didn’t finish, but it was hot and awesome anyway. Now this did eventually become an...
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I’m with Miel on the orgasm front. Now I’m a penetration girl, lucky enough to be able to have orgasms from penetration. but even those don’t always happen. sometimes, i’m just tired, and i dont have...
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Christy and Kerry, we’ve had LOADS of talks about sex, before, during, after, randomly, high-stress, low-stress, emotional, funny, boring… I’ve been through the whole spiel on here before so I’ll try...
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To come back on what BreezyAM said about “having orgasm is not the end all be all” and “I’d like to hear of a man talk about hot sex where he didn’t orgasm”. I just want to precise my thoughts based...
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I laughed out loud at BreezyAM’s comment because it describes my own experience quite well. I always thought I knew my body very well – and I do in a sense, I have a lot of self-love experience and I...
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@Breezy – The comment, “How much foreplay do you need?” comment made me think he’s probably a selfish prick. And yeah, I think she’s absolutely going to need to learn her own body and what works for...
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I just want to say… first I apologize for the heteronormative tone of everything I’m about to say. Now, how do I say this… While I know my view is tainted by 12 years of PIV sex with zero orgasms from...
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Peeing after sex really helps to reduce/prevent UTIs. Just a piece of advice no one else should have to learn the hard way
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Tell her to buy a little bullet vibrator to use on herself during sex. Bam. Problem solved. That is the only way I can get off during PiV sex and it took me far too long to figure it out.
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@KKZ yes I would have these conversations during a non-sex time. My BF and I even have “check in” conversations every once in a while. Usually I bring it up but it’s like “is there anything I’m not...
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KKZ, gf and I needed some pretty serious communication about sex. Have you brought up issues not in the middle of sex? That’s the best time to talk about it, because there’s no pressure. During...
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Don’t worry about TMI, thanks for that tip! I’ve been fortunate and have never gotten a UTI from sex. And thanks for the anit-wet effect warning. This is going to be some crazy experiment! Haha!
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Yeah, shower sex can be fun, but I’ve always found that the water actually has an anti-wet effect IF YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN. So, watch out for that, too!
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Hahaha! I never thought of that! Thanks for not letting me learn the hard way, drowning isn’t fun! Yeah, we have a good sense of humor about sex. If we’re experimenting with a new position and...
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Oh hey, just a word of caution with shower sex- I got the worst UTI of my life post shower sex. TMI time- we where like sitting in the tub and water built up in the genital region and I guess the...
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Haha glad to give you something new to try! It can be really awkward, though, and usually takes some finagling to find a position that works. But if you have a sense of humor about it and don’t set...
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Thanks for the tips everyone! She’s so sensitive…it’s going to be hard to explain this to her. I’m going to take AKchic’s advice and email it to her. That way I can word everything right. Akchic also...
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Shower sex, as in PIV, I don’t like. Height differences between the two of us make it not a very practical choice. But it’s a great place for a little mutual rubbing and kissing. And, you know,...
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Ugh, I hate shower sex! But @KKZ, I do agree that they should try new things and focus on sexual connection over orgasms, even if they don’t like everything they try. It sounds like really boring sex...
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Foreplay in the shower would be a good idea for this couple. It’s hot, literally and figuratively. It’s necessarily limited by time, unless you don’t mind running up the bill and using up all your hot...
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